Why Take My Kindness as Weakness?

It appears to me that we are now living in a day and time when all some folks want to do is use you. An old song once said, "Keep on using me till you use me up!!" Well I feel that I am at that point. I feel that I am the one getting the short end of the stick while everyone else is doing their own thing. It's about time for me to do my own thing as well.
     Just because I am a kind person don't walk over me. I am not your doormat. The last time I looked, I still have feelings also and right now they have been wounded. Over the last five years I have done nothing but paid for other peoples mistakes. When I say "paid", I really mean paid, with my finances. I would like to have funds for myself as well. Not have them snatched from my account no sooner than it goes in.
     I know this "Battle Belongs to God", therefore I am allowing Him to speak to the heart of the abusers and show them where they are just using me and I don't like it. As they say, "It's time to wake up and smell the coffee". The coffee is brewing and I am too.